But sometimes my island refugees escape via social media raft and decide it’s time to tell Facebook all about their super awesome new relationships.
So you get on Facebook to have a little peek into the life of your ex.
If anything, you’d be happy that your ex has decided to move on.
But what if you’re still not completely over your ex?
You have to be able to come to a point where you can at least tolerate him, and eventually work your way towards having a decent relationship with him.
Particularly if you see the relationship having a future, he will be the man your kids will be living with (if your wife has custody) or at the very least, interacting with, if you have joint custody.