This time last year I was nursing a broken heart, wearing a lot of sweatpants, and watching an unhealthy amount of Netflix.

If you talk like you are everything in the world, you might risk the chances of having the relationship.As movies like have illustrated, building a relationship tends to be complicated. I say “over-stalk” because we are all guilty of Facebook creeping to a certain degree.To simplify things, I've compiled this list, based on observations and real life experiences people have shared with me. The trick is not going so over-the-top as to make it obvious. But there are too many cringe-worthy stories of guys and girls alike crossing the line from friendly to obsessed to leave it off the list.In 2009, I told my wife that I was going to marry her. A few weeks later, I convinced her to take a chance. We went to one of those fancy restaurants where you cook your own food over an open flame, followed up by a night of ice skating (which we could barely do), and capped the evening with dessert and a few hours of good conversation.Now as many of you know, I’ve been married for almost 5 years now.