From the way some young Christians talk, it is clear there’s a misconception that marriage solves the problem of lust. Repeated sexual sin, pornography use, and lack of self-control when dating will surely follow a person into marriage if not dealt with and repented of. It has often been said that how a man treats his mother and sister reveals how he will eventually treat his wife.
In the same way, how your partner treats strangers, like the cashier at the grocery store or the waiter at the restaurant, speaks to how they view people in general—their worth, value, and dignity.
While having the strong feelings of love towards someone is essential to getting married, other factors are important to consider before walking down the aisle.
Ask the following questions to help you determine if he is the one for you forever.
A lot of people have the tendency to think a Christian dating relationship is dull or lacks adventure.
Sadly, Christians are consistently guilty of compromise in this area.
In my talk on dating I tell people that there is so much more to dating then just going out to a movie.