The quality of the men who contacted her went way up. After all, the chances of divorce in couples where the women earn more than their husbands is double that when the inverse is true.” Okay, I don’t know the stats behind the divorce rate when women earn a higher income than their spouses, but I’m pretty sure that money is Your character says a whole lot more about you than your income. I’ve had clients who made more than the men they were dating, and they were still looking for a man to pay for dates. I didn’t want her to stay at home.’ ”I don’t think you should hide your success from a man or diminish yourself in any way for a man to feel better about his ego. A confident man doesn’t feel threatened by a woman’s success. If you’re passionate about your career, you want to discuss business with your partner.She started meeting men with whom she shared common interests. It was less about wanting his money, more about chivalry and feeling taken care of by a man.“The divorced guys I date love the fact that I’m financially independent because they’re so angry that their ex-wives stayed at home, so angry they’re paying alimony. The man I’m dating now is also independently employed.You’ve got your sweatpants on, ordered enough Thai for two but only for one, and there’s a bottle of open booze somewhere in the room -- you must be single on Valentine’s Day. And I’m probably doing the exact same thing, with one big difference: instead of crying my way through…er, I mean dry-eyed watching a cheesy romcom, I’ve got my computer open, and I’m working overtime.Such is the life of an online dating profile ghostwriter.They create a resume that only focuses on their skills and accomplishments.Or they write a sales pitch trying to convince women why they should choose Spell check and review your grammar!
They pen a factual biography that details their life story.
— I don’t often feel moved to comment on articles, but this one Why High-Earning Women Should Disclose Their Income on Dating Sites by Emma Johnson is worthy of commentary. When Emma began to attract these interesting men, it intrigued her friend Farnoosh Torabi, the financial expert and author of, When She Makes More: The Truth About Navigating Love and Life for a New Generation of Women.
Divorced, dating for four years on OKCupid and Match.com, Emma is a 38-year old wealthy woman who did not disclose her income when she first started dating. She decided to reveal her income on OKCupid and guess what happened? Torabi says that women who are high earners should reveal their financial status early on, because it “allows for any resentment to be worked through early in the courtship.
The stigma is gone -- and don’t listen to anyone who disagrees. Today, my clients zip their credit cards to the tune of anywhere around 0 to 0 (though I spill 144 pages of easy, actionable advice in my new book, for those on a budget). To be completely corny and completely honest, these sites and apps can help you find the most important person in your life -- and they all require some sort of profile (yes, even a series of photos counts).
That goal alone, though, can be paralyzing, giving even writers writers’ block and above all making the majority of profiles…let’s just say lacking the personality they so desperately need.