Read his profile, find something you both have in common or that resonates with you and mention it. I don't usually start off a post with the impact points right at the beginning.Here are seven facts that support why women should ditch the passive behavior online. The men I coach and speak with are burnt out from online dating.They do not want a long process and they get disillusioned with the time it takes to get a response from a woman.There is nothing inherent about initiating an email conversation that screams out “desperate”. Where most women screw up that first email contact is by taking one of two approaches: 1) telling him how great he is, or 2) explaining why you’re great and why he should write back to you. Is there something particularly energizing in the phrase, “I think we have a lot in common”?Is it really all that intriguing when he explains why he’s a good partner for you, even though you haven’t met?Sure, male biology is accurate and men do love the chase, so I am not telling you to keep chasing him after you send an initial email.You must shift the digital dating process and allow him to pursue you after initial contact.

One of my best online dating tips suggests not waiting at all!

Because emailing a man is nothing more than starting a conversation, you may think, "Why not?

"However, once you decide to email an interesting guy, you may find yourself thinking, "What do I say to him?

and, in fact, get you exactly what you want: responses, phone numbers, dates, and success.

Chase woke up one day in 2004 tired of being alone.