Well I don't think it should be 'red flags' either, too bad that's not how it is. And if he/she waits a few more years they're really going to be considered "something wrong with them." I don't know where all you have been but people say "I would never date late 20s/early 30s with no dating.."REGULARLY, sometimes on this forum even (I should know & I'm older than the OP). I simply want to give you the tools you need to enrich your damn lives.If for whatever reason you don't like my advice, feel free to file a formal complaint here. Hello Mr Allan, I'm in my mid-40's and never dated seriously.

So I met someone a while back at a work party (Our company is very big and we work in different departments, so I've never seen her Can't let go of my husband's past and thinking of breaking up.

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It's not that I don't want to, it's that I don't really know how.

I had a rough childhood for various reasons, mostly I was very awkward and weird so the other kids ostracised me, and I never have had any close friends.