Follow these simple, user-friendly rules and you may just come out a winner. When looking at guys always remember that it's kind of like going to IKEA.
Everything looks okay from the outside, but there is frequently a lot of pressboard and polyester involved inside.
High on the bestseller lists this week is a book called The Rules, a guide to dating and courting for women which effectively advocates that women, in order to snag a man, follow a sexist and manipulative dating game based on the principles of 50 years ago.
(Except that back then, the guys knew the women were playing this game and accounted for it.) What follows, in the same vein is a satire, The Rules for Guys.
The guy or girl playing hard to get will still give off those tell tale signs that we just mentioned.
This is the fantasy where a notorious playboy who is beautiful, buff, and rich swoops in, realizes (at first sight, naturally) that you and you alone possess the inner beauty he has been seeking all his life, forsakes all others for you, and then takes care of your every spiritual, emotional, and physical need.
Others noted that Fein was an accountant and Schneider a freelance journalist without professional qualification in the subject matter.
Fein married and divorced, and has recently remarried. The authors admitted they were not professionals in an appearance on NBC's The Today Show.
Advocates also elucidate that a woman making herself easily available to men may increase her chances of being unconsciously or unscrupulously taken advantage of or abused.
By applying a deliberate approach to relationships, Rules champions suggest, a woman has the time and space to discover and reflect upon the character and actions of a man she is dating.