This may not be the case, but whether it is or not, taking on daily public scrutiny like this is no picnic.
That sounds dramatic; don’t forget how it actually looks…
If he encourages you to do this before you’re ready, you will forever resent him for what you missed out on.
Every time you go to a restaurant, the staff will glare at you both — him for being shallow and you for being a gold digger.
Dear Christine, I started dating a man and we have an amazing connection. I had NEVER considered or imagined I would be drawn to someone so much older. Do I turn away what seems to be my perfect match because of the age gap?
We have endless and effortless conversations about the myriad interests we share, he's hilarious (and he thinks I am too), we share the same values in life, I feel like I can be 100% myself with him. Let me be clear, I'm not drawn to him because he "fathers me." I have a great, solid relationship with my dad and have no issues there.