She is more likely to give your waiter a hard time, return her food during dinner and ask for something else or be a pain in just about any other way.
Many guys, even the most confident guys, will have a hard time relaxing and being themselves around such a woman.
You’ve got those complaining you’re less than gentlemanly one moment, and then another set chastising you for not taking them seriously as independent women the next. And yes, the chauvinistic judgments will no doubt shine through that stink eye she gives you, but please—ignore it. We don’t need you to stand up when we leave a table or get every door, box and tab. Step in if we get hassled by some drunken idiot on the subway.
We ladies probably seem impossible to please, because everyone’s got a different idea of what’s acceptable now. Sometimes, you’re going to offer to help with those bags she’s carrying and get a biting glare. It’s how we weed out the good guys from the toxic ones.
You’re either the sexist jerk for lending an unprompted hand, or the inconsiderate jerk for not doing so. But deep down, we still appreciate when guys to treat us like ladies.
I know that answer is the worst, but keep listening. Most women want to know you’re invested in them as human beings from the start of dating, straight on through the phase when we settle into the relationship. “I still believe chivalry is alive and well,” says dating and relationship expert Julie Spira. She gives smart, super-honest advice about your biggest dating and relationship conundrums.
There’s a potential chance of meeting the one you could spend the rest of your life with.There aren’t many men out there who want to deal with uptight women – the ones who act like they are some kind of royalty, and who think that they should be treated like a very expensive and fragile artifact – with utmost gentle care without being exposed to any strong or controversial opinion or an inappropriate joke.In fact, I don’t know any such men except those guys who think that all women are uptight, and that’s just how it is, just because the few ones that they met happened to be that way.You want to explore the possibilities with him and see what he’s all about.It starts out light and fun, it’s about connecting and enjoying each other’s company.